Talking to Your Teen about Eating Disorders
Very little has been within our control over the last two years. Coping with so much hardship, anxiety, and isolation can be extremely difficult. For some, it has led to unhealthy relationships with drugs, alcohol, and even food.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention released a report in February that showed a steady increase in eating disorder-related emergency department visits by girls between 12 and 17 years old.
Eating disorders are serious and potentially fatal mental health conditions. It’s the second-deadliest mental illness after opioid addiction. That’s why it’s so important to have a conversation early if you think someone suffers from an eating disorder.
By the Numbers
According to the National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders (ANAD):
- 28.8 million Americans — 9% of the U.S. population — will have an eating disorder
- Less than 6% of people with an eating disorder are medically diagnosed as underweight
- 10,200 deaths a year are the direct result of an eating disorder — one every 52 minutes
- Non-whites are significantly less likely than whites to have been asked by a doctor about eating disorder symptoms
- Non-whites with eating disorders are half as likely to be diagnosed or receive treatment
- Black people are less likely to be diagnosed with anorexia than white people but experience it longer
- Black teenagers are 50% more likely than white teens to exhibit binge-eating and purging
- Hispanics are significantly more likely to suffer from bulimia nervosa than non-Hispanics
- Asian American college students report higher levels of body dissatisfaction than their non-Asian non-white peers
What to Look For
Eating disorders result from severe disturbances in eating behaviors often related to thoughts and emotions. The person is focused on food, how they look, or their weight. They focus on those things at the exclusion of everything else.
The most common eating disorders and their symptoms:
Anorexia nervosa — People see themselves as overweight and tend to constantly weigh themselves. Those of the restrictive subtype seriously restrict how much they eat. The binge-purge subtype restricts how much they eat, though they may occasionally eat a large amount of food then purge by vomiting or using laxatives. They are dangerously thin. Anorexia can be fatal as organs and muscles can break down.
Bulimia nervosa — People with this condition will frequently eat large amounts of food, feel guilty about it, then purge, exercise excessively, use laxatives, fast, or a combination of all these behaviors. The vomiting can lead to damaged teeth, acid reflux, and dehydration.
Binge-eating disorder — A person will lose control of their eating and recurrently eat large amounts of food. They are often obese because the excessive eating is never followed by purging, fasting or exercise. This is the most common eating disorder in the U.S.
Talking to Your Teen
There are several reasons people can develop eating disorders. There is a potential genetic link as people who have siblings or parents with an eating disorder are more likely to develop an eating disorder. Depression and anxiety are often linked with eating disorders. Western culture emphasizes thin, athletic bodies. Certain activities — gymnastics, skating, ballet — seem to favor slender people.
Preventing an eating disorder starts with open communication about body image and diet.
- Encourage healthy habits — Talk about how energy, appearance, and health are affected by diet. Encourage teens to only eat when hungry. Provide a good example.
- Talk about media messages — Encourage teens to question what they see in the media about body types.
- Discuss healthy body image — Reassure them that healthy body shapes aren’t uniform. Don’t joke about ANYONE’s looks or use hurtful nicknames based on someone’s appearance.
- Promote self-esteem — Honor your teen’s accomplishments. Listen to them and look for positive qualities. Let them know you love and accept them unconditionally. It doesn’t matter how they look or what they weigh.
- Talk about the dangers — Let your teen know it can affect their growth and long-term health. Emotional eating can lead to dangerous conditions. Let them know they can always talk to you about their feelings instead of turning to food.
AltaMed Is Here to Help
AltaMed’s experienced Behavioral Health team is staffed with licensed clinical social workers who speak English and Spanish and are trained to help cope with life’s stressors. Short-term therapy is available, and we can connect members with mental health services if long-term therapy or other support is needed. If you need help talking to a loved one, there are resources available to you. Call us at (855) 425-1777 to get started.